Wolfe Academyof Desire

Where intimacy and authenticity meet

BDSM Training, Self-Discovery, and Relationship Tips for the Kink-Curious and Experienced

Designed to help you grow confidence, deepen intimacy, and empower you to safely embrace the most authentic kinky you.

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Live + Recorded Online Workshops

Monthly course series designed to help you master BDSM skills. Find out what's live this month!

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Workshop Archive, Interactive Worksheets, and Online Community

Join us on Patreon to access workshop recordings that never expire, worksheets to apply class lessons to your life, direct support for your questions, and an online community to learn and share together.

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BDSM & Kink Coaching

For those looking to go deeper with a kink expert by your side. Get 1-on-1 advice, training, support, or a personalized plan for your kink journey to help you reach your goals.

Hello, I'm Wiley Wolfe!

Pronouns: They/Them

I'm a Toronto-based kink educator and coach who's been living and working professionally in this lifestyle 24/7 for nearly a decade. Kink is my authenticity practice, and what I love most is helping people embrace and deepen their intimacy and play.

I've taught extensively at BDSM conferences across North America including Kinkfest, Dark Odyssey, and Westcoast Bound; worked as a Professional Dominant with hundreds of clients; and helped kinksters and couples virtually worldwide. I have organized 70+ community events including my co-founded pet play community SoCal Creatures, which I have operated since 2019, a virtual primal support group from 2021–2023, and erotic immersive theatre productions. I have also been performing kink for stages and events including Toronto's Coven Fetish Ball, LA's Bondage Ball, and the AASECT Annual Conference since 2018.

I was awarded Best Pet Play Educator and Mistress of Ceremonies in 2021 during DomCon LA, and am currently pursuing a Master's-equivalent sex coach certification.

My personal relationships all center 24/7 power exchange, polyamory, and risk-informed consent. I have been served by my long-distance boy and pet for 4 years, as well as by my live-in girl and nesting partner for 8 years.

My approach is deep, thoughtful, risk-informed, researched, and focused in bringing out the most authentic you. Whether you're looking to try kink for the first time, strengthen a relationship, or play safer on the edges, my work aims to give you a solid foundation and the empowerment to grow.

Listen to Past Podcasts

Sex Ed with Tim Podcast (daddies, cigars, & more), August 2024
Sluts & Scholars Podcast (pet play, primal), September 2023
The Rocket Review Podcast, March 2023

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